Matt Slayer Welcomes Che Durena to ‘And Now We Drink’
Matt Slayer and Che Durena go full chaos mode: porn-tab rituals, dopamine discipline, sex work discretion, fame vs. freedom, building a diehard fanbase, and the pitch for an Avengers-level porno … before diving headfirst into Marvel Rivals, Baldur’s Gate 3, and gamer rage.
(HOLLYWOOD, Calif. / July 13, 2026) — Comic and creator Che Durena stops by for a round of cocktails and candid conversation on the new episode of Matt Slayer’s unfiltered And Now We Drink podcast.
And Now We Drink is like ”the conversation at the end of the bar” featuring your favorite writers, comedians, adult film stars, artists, musicians and actors. No topic is off-limits as Slayer and his guests delve into their personal experiences, sharing stories and their unique perspectives on sex, relationships, and life.
In the wide-ranging Episode 464, Matt Slayer sits down with comedian and creator Che Durena for a wildly unfiltered ride through sex, self-control, creative ambition, and way more video game talk than anyone could have predicted. The episode kicks off with a deep, hilarious dive into porn habits, masturbation rituals, dopamine management, edging, and the strange psychology of “earning” a better orgasm. From there, Matt and Che unpack desire, authenticity, the appeal and limits of transactional sex, and why feeling wanted can matter more than the act itself.
The conversation shifts into sex work, privacy, celebrity clients, clout-chasing scandals, pegging rumors, and the business realities behind discretion. Che also opens up about boundaries, guardedness, fame, and why success doesn’t necessarily mean wanting more public recognition. That leads into a thoughtful tangent on building a loyal micro-community, staying creatively irreplaceable, and making content that feels true instead of chasing trends.
Then things get ambitious: Che pitches a full-scale “Avengers of porn” feature film, complete with comedians, legacy performers, OnlyFans stars, red carpet chaos, and a potential international “fuck fighter” tournament plot. Finally, the episode detours into gaming, with Matt and Che nerding out over Marvel Rivals, Deadlock, Baldur’s Gate 3, Cyberpunk, Castlevania, Fallout, Mario nostalgia, and the frustrations of team-based competitive play.
Che’s special, How to Make Your Balls Bigger, is also on the way, making this episode equal parts filthy, funny, surprisingly philosophical, and deeply, deeply nerdy.
The uncensored Episode 464 of And Now We Drink featuring Che Durena is now available via Bleav ( https://bleav.com/shows/and-now-we-drink/ ), as well as at the program’s official website: www.andnowwedrink.com and on fine services such as:
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/and-now-we-drink/id1110253182
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4FkjI9nvt7cpoOI4Q8YqL3
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And Now We Drink has been nominated for Best Entertainment Podcast in the 2026 ASN Awards. Voting is now open at: https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/vote-4-13-2026.
